Not far now
Only 24 days to go until the baby’s ETA date. Although of course I realize that it is not likely to be on that actual day. I have started finishing up things at work and it feels weird that I won’t be around.
I went grocery shopping yesterday I bought milk which had a later expiry date than my due date. That struck me as very strange. Months ago, it felt like I would be pregnant forever, but now the date is approaching. I hear that the waiting after the due date is the longest wait of all, and first babies do tend to be late. But I still am counting down the days.
Another side of me doesn’t want the pregnancy to end. I like the looks I get and being treated special. Also, I think I am really going to miss the baby kicking (except the kicks to the bladder). Most nights I am up 2-7 times to go pee, which I guess is good training for when the baby is here. But it would be nice to not have to plan my errands around bathroom trips. The other day I was at Yonge/Finch and the bathrooms were locked since it was after 6:00, luckily there was a dentist office there and they let me use their bathroom instead (Thank you).
Other symptoms:
- Occasional abdominal pain due to kicking or Brakston-Hicks
- Carpal tunnel: I wake up with painful hands each morning and cannot close my right fist for a while. Also, part of my left thumb is numb always.
- Weird painful spot on the upper outside of my calf
- Constipation – I must say that “Prune Nectar” rules. When I actually remember to drink a glass each day, this really helps.
- Swollen ankles – good thing I have boots that fit
- Mood swings
Felt Baby kicking for the first time
Last night we felt the baby kicking for the first time. It was really subtle and actually my husband felt the kicks before I did. You have to lie down very still and put your hand on your belly. I kept feeling my own heart beat and it was difficult to distinguish, but there were movements that were not associated with my heart, gas, or my own movements. We had seen the baby kicking during the ultrasounds, but it was really cool to feel it.
Our doctor had said that I might be delayed in feeling the kicks because my placenta is placed in front of the baby. This is week 21 for me.
Of course the baby sleeps from time to time so maybe all the other times I tried the baby was just asleeep. The rest of my day is normally so busy that I don’t think I would feel something this subtle.